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The Rhody Difference -

Co-Creating a Meaningful Experience

Honoured to Support the Communities of:
Allenford, Chatsworth, Chesley, Desboro, Elmwood, Hanover, Paisley, Tara

Ceremonies are most meaningful when they are personalized, be it a graduation, wedding, or funeral. As you are planning, think about the qualities that made your loved one special and what he or she meant to others. Consider passions, hobbies, pastimes, likes, dislikes. How is it that you wish to honour and celebrate your loved one’s life? Meaningful funerals are made up of different parts that, when combined, create an incredibly profound experience for you, your family, and friends.

There is no such a thing as a ‘standard’ funeral. A funeral should match the spirit, personality and beliefs of the person who has died and the family and friends that are left behind. Religious or non-religious, there are no rigid rules that have to be followed. As long as your ideas are not illegal or immoral we will do our best to help you to create a memorable ceremony.

Time

You can choose any day of the week and any time of the day for your gathering(s). Would it work better for your family and friends to gather in the evening? Discuss it with us!

Visitation / Gathering

Receiving friends through a visitation activates your support system and allows others to express their love and concern for you and your family. Do you wish to do this at home, in your church, at the funeral home, or a location dear to your loved one or you?

Ceremony

Holding the funeral ceremony in a meaningful location is one way of personalizing your experience. Think about a bowling alley or theater, baseball diamond or barn.

Celebration of Life / Informal Reception (Come & Go)

This informal time can be held instead of a formal ceremony, allowing family and friends to share memories, to laugh, cry and show support for one another without a set structure. A specific time can be set aside to publically share memories, readings, and/or reflections. Please be aware that people tend to look for these elements of saying good-bye and therefore it is suggested they be incorporated into the reception.

Did the deceased love donuts and coffee? What about pizza or chicken wings? Think about having these on hand for your guests, instead of the customary “funeral” lunch.

Picture Book, Memorial Video, Memorial Card and/or Display(s)

We think these elements are important aspects of healing, therefore we offer these services free of charge! Photos, videos, cards and exhibits help families celebrate, grieve, showcase, and preserve their most treasured memories and life story. They assist by telling a life story in a simple yet eye-catching way. Choose up to 15 photos of your loved one, on their own, doing their favourite thing, or with someone special (persons, pet) and our graphic artist will design a one of a kind tri-fold card for you and your family. If your loved one enjoyed hockey we can set up a display of different hockey sweater/jerseys, sticks, cards, pucks and trophies. With your imagination there are no boundaries!

Music and Readings

One of the purposes of music is to help us to access our feelings, both happy and sad. Did your loved one listen to Elvis Presley? The Bagpipes? What about Rascal Flatts, The Beatles or the symphony? Did he or she like to play guitar? Likewise, readings are another way to convey the unique life and philosophies of the person who died. Think about a favourite poem, short story, novel, cartoon strip or joke. We can arrange for almost anything. Talk to us about your options.

Eulogy/Remembrance

Often the eulogy is the most remembered and meaningful element of a funeral ceremony. Think about having a couple of people speak, read a letter, or an e-mail. Different people have different point of views. Explore your options.

Burial/Graveside Service

Accompanying a body, or cremated remains, to its final resting place and saying a few last words brings a necessary feeling of finality to the funeral process. Being present for the lowering of the casket may seem a difficult event to observe. However, there are numerous benefits to doing so. For as hard as it is, being witness to death's finality continues the healing process for you and your family.

Living Funeral

A living funeral is the celebration of your life with a twist—you, the honouree, are living and present to hear the farewells, to say good-bye and thank-you, as well as to enjoy your family and friends, before imminent death.

This gathering of family, friends, neighbours, and colleagues is a ceremony, and/or reception, to celebrate a person with a life-limiting illness. This type of gathering is a means of acknowledging a loved one, and allows them to pass on in peace with an active knowledge of the feelings and thoughts of others.

The gathering could take place in a hospital room, at a home, community center, place of worship, hotel banquet hall, favourite restaurant, theater, or any other place that would honour the person.

Theming

When words are inadequate, objects are often used to help express our innermost thoughts and feelings. In a funeral or memorial ceremony items like flowers, water, candles, or different kinds of food are the most common, and help us to access our memories. However, we are not limited by just these ideas. Think about what best reflects who your loved one was. What about personalizing the casket or urn with something unique? Did he or she really, really enjoy cookies? What about using a cookie jar as their urn? Did they enjoy fishing, what about a tackle box?

Take-aways are another option. They can be small, inexpensive gifts you give your guests in memory of your loved one and they can be a unique way of saying thank-you for coming. Wildflower seeds, a tree seedling, your loved one’s much-loved recipe, cookies, candy, or even a page from his or her favourite book can be given out.

There are numerous ways we can personalize your loved one’s ceremony, making it very meaningful. What about having their pet present at the ceremony or having their band perform during a ceremony or reception? Or, what about releasing butterflies, doves or balloons at the interment or inurnment?

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Our Testimonials

Everything was awesome at an awful time….You are the BEST!

Faye Bell McClure

Everything was done so professionally that I don’t think anything else could have been done.

Joy Pitman

You go above and beyond with your services and expertise and compassion.

Judy Charlton

You have succeeded in taking the sadness out of a funeral and made it into a celebration of life and remembrance, which we truly appreciated... Continue doing what you did for us. It was exceptional in every regard.

Marlowe Emke

Our law office often has had many estates involving families who have obtained funeral services from Nathan. He is regarded by my staff and myself as outstanding for his professional, pleasant, and efficient manner. We would highly recommend Rhody Family Funeral Home to anyone.

Ross McLean, McLean Lawyers

Dear Nathan, I cannot say thank you enough for everything you and the rest of the Rhody Family Funeral Home team done for our family with Mom's passing. From the moment you got to Mom's house your professionalism was second to none. You listened and read between the lines yet missed nothing, every little touch was simply perfect, you left nothing undone, your care and compassion to ensure our family made Mom proud one more time, and for that I am forever grateful. You took a very difficult time for us and made it as simple and stress free for us as humanly possible. Nathan you should be very proud of yourself and the rest of your team. You have definitely set the bar very high for any other funeral home in the province to follow. Again thank you

Sincerely, Deb and Doug

Nathan: Thank you so very much for all that you have done for my Mom and my family. Your friendship during this difficult time was truly heartfelt. You made us feel welcome and like a part of your family. The whole time we spoke both at the nursing home and then at your place was a very peaceful experience. Not once were we made to feel like we did not belong there. Your attention to detail in everything that all of us said shows in the story of my Dad’s life and the video. Where there were concerns, you set them all at ease. I so appreciate all that you did for my Mom in helping her take care of cancellations and notifications for my Dad. It set her mind at ease knowing that you were taking care of all of this for her. It set me at ease knowing that she would not have to deal with the frustrations that sometimes come in taking care of these things. You and your family have gone above and beyond in all that you have done for us and I am truly thankful. The warmth and caring went home with us that day. We knew that the right choice had been made in allowing you to take care of my Dad. Again, thank you.

Katie

Your services are respectful, accomodating and very professional. An excellent job done. Thank you.

Darren Goodayle

Our aunt & uncle were buried from a different funeral home and we noticed a huge difference in the funeral home services provided. Our mom and dad looked so natural (thank you!) while our aunt and uncle did not. Thank you Nathan, we can't begin to tell you how much we appreciate you and your staff this year!

Ann Legge, Patricia Tibbo & Jane Lembke

All the worlds a stage and all the men and women merely players." Rhody Family Funeral Home takes this and runs with it in an intricate and tasteful manner. The beautiful funeral home sets the stage to reflect the deceased's individual personality. Nathan's artistic ability is only surpassed by his compassion, sincerity and understanding. He goes above and beyond the required duties. His staff is second to none. Darlene Rhody soft spoken and sympathetic and Morris Emke gentlemanly and obliging. Pastor Terri-Ann is like no other with her comforting words of wisdom and encouragement and so compassionate. Her service was nothing short of beautiful. A very heartfelt thank you to Nathan and his staff for making an unpleasant experience bearable. And hats off to Rhody Family funeral home for sending dad -Ross Hammond off in the fashion he deserved. From my mom and my siblings our sincerest gratitude.

Nancy Nickel

Personnel, facilities, advise & support all exceeded our expectations - it helped to communicate details by email. In particular, both Nathan and Terri-Ann did an excellent job! I was surpised at the after service documentation - all details well organized.

Larry Bell

Nathan and staff were kind and helpful throughout the process. They really went above and beyond to make the experience as positive as possible.

Amy Stephen

Everything was great - many great comments made about the story alone on Pearl's life and we sent copies to people who could not attend - a very nice addition.

Family of Pearl Stephen

Our experience was amazing under the circumstances. Your services were perfect. You went above and beyond our expectations. You are very caring, compassionate and professional in your approach. You create a very therapeutic environment.

Elmer Ward

"Dear Nathan, your many caring and creative touches from the notice to the burial in the days following Catharine's (McKeeman) passing meant so much to all of us. You honoured her life in so many meaningful ways. Your compassion and celebration of her life will always be remembered by all those Catharine held dear."

Ian Campbell, Catharine's Brother

“Nathan, you did an absolutely amazing job. People give us compliments about everything from the life story to the beautiful, elaborate displays at the visitation. I tell everyone it was you. All the surprises - the cookies, the recipe cards, the signing picture - all amazing!”

Kim and Alan Grant

“Staff were professional and friendly.”

“Exceptional service.”

Lawrence and Heather Lamarche

“Nathan, you present yourself very well. Facilities were all that could be expected.”

“I would recommend your funeral home to everyone. Nathan’s ability to put you at ease, with a caring attitude is super and very respectful!”

Carol Golem

“We were all very impressed.”

Roberta Godwin

“Dear Nathan - You did a good job. Thank-you for all your help and all the information you obtained for me."

Gloria Albright

“Your sense of humour was a plus! You and your staff clearly have a calling for the work that you do. We all felt that we were in good hands throughout the entire process…. Nathan, thank you for everything. You made things easy for us, as we felt like we were working on Dad’s arrangements with family. We gave Dad a great send off and thank you and your staff for being a part of it.”

Deborah Hart

“Letters cancelling Gov’t services was a great help and was very much appreciated.”

William & Loraine Patterson

“You did everything really well. All needs were met and then some.… We received positive comments on the stationary. Great keep sakes. The book and slideshow were beautiful.”

Elaine King

“We had no concerns- worries, nothing, but confidence in the staff – we knew exactly how everything would happen and when - it was so nice not to have to concern ourselves with anything.”

Rebecca Becker

"I don't think there is anything more you or your staff could do."

Bernice Frook

"No improvement needed. We were pleased with everything."

Susan Taylor

“I would not have changed anything. Thanks very much – Nathan and staff.”

“New renovations are very inviting and warm. All your new cards and books are very heart warming and keepsakes.”

Valerie Long

"Staff were outstanding. Overall, it was great. Everything was perfect."

Susan Laver

“Staff is exceptional!... All needs were met.”

“Service was beyond expectations… Already recommended to various people.”

Steve Thomson

“Could not have been more useful – very satisfied! I would highly recommend Rhody Family. Thank you ever so much for your professionalism and expertise.”

Dave Hillier

“Honestly, you and your staff made this time in my life the best it could be and were extremely helpful, respectful, professional and accommodating to my needs and my family’s needs, especially providing me with a space to feed [my child] if needed. Thank you for everything”

Olivia Strucke

“Everything was perfect; it’s always nice to have lots of options.”

Kevin Dailey

“Thank you for all your empathy, compassion and professionalism. Our family… is very grateful that we chose Rhody Family Funeral Home to look after our loved one.”

Siobhan Bell

“Your services were excellent. Thank you again.”

Debbie Eidt

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