Harold Raymond Thomson was born amid a snowstorm, on Tuesday, January 22, 1946. As the story was told, his parents were en route to the hospital, when the weather forced them to pull into their neighbours, Fred and Dorothy Friar’s. Harold was not prepared to wait and therefore was welcomed into the world by the four of them in the Friar home on the 6th of Elderslie. He joined his older brother, Elroy (1944), and was later followed by younger siblings, Ron (1951), Joan (1958), and Brad (1962). The Thomson family resided on the 6th of Elderslie where they operated a mixed farm. The children attended the Red Schoolhouse (S.S. #6 Elderslie) before heading off to high school in Chesley. Harold would be the first to admit that he wasn’t much for school and lasted a total of about six months.
By this time, Harold had his license and had earned the nickname, “Roadrunner” from his father. Harold joked that he was to busy driving livestock to Kitchener for Paul Watson, his teacher, to be able to go to school… Lol! As one can expect, trucking was very different at that time as Harold transported 4 – 5 animals per trip on his father’s 65’ Dodge 300 (1 ton). When not running the roads, Harold could be found helping his parents milking cows, as well as working with his father, and Elroy at the family sawmill. In 1971, Harold bought his first truck, a Chevy 2-ton. Again, he mostly dealt with livestock, with his mother acting as his part-time secretary, Harold worked hard to build his name and business. During these early years, he made countless trips to Bender’s in Paisley as well as Brown’s Meat Market in Chesley. In the winter months, Harold could often be found plowing the roads of Elderslie Township, as a wingman, along with Murray Nicoll and Bob Byers.
By the early 80’s Harold and Wayne Schwartz had formed a working relationship doing snow removal in Hanover. Their partnership grew in the years following as together they started Chesley Backhoe Service in 1984, with Harold’s brother, Brad, acting as their backhoe operator. Harold worked hard, and thankfully success followed him, as he added another truck, float, bucket machine, and pay loader, to his fleet in the coming years. As he put it, he was often a “One Man Show” and called upon family and close friends when he needed help with bigger jobs.
In 1991, the Thomson family was preparing for Harold’s brother, Ron’s upcoming wedding. As fate would have it the bride-to-be’s sister, Mary Hallam, caught Harold’s eye. Following the wedding and in the coming months the two began dating before purchasing a home together in Dobbinton. The year was 1996. Harold continued to operate his business from their home for the next 16 years until he began to slow down in 2012. Together with Mary, they found the perfect retirement property on the 14th of Brant. The extra space was important as Harold needed to build a shop to hold all his toys. Although there were many favourites through the years, his 1968 baby blue Volkswagen Beetle, 1972 Ford 750 dump truck, and 2000 grey Chrysler Sebring convertible were on the top of the list. It was not uncommon to see Harold, and often Mary, out for a ride to enjoy the sights and countryside. Retirement afforded Harold some extra time whereby he and Mary experienced Florida a couple of times and drove out west in 2017. Unfortunately, this was the same year that Harold was initially diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma, a form of blood cancer. With the support of Mary, family, and friends, Harold underwent several rounds of treatments as well as blood transfusions. Although never easy, Harold tried to make the best of these trips with family and friends, and I am told was particularly fond of the honey garlic chicken wings at Swiss Chalet… but I will let Chuck Thomson finish that story. Another of Harold’s favourites was Chinese food, and he rarely passed up the opportunity when presented to him. These medical appointments also afforded Harold to experience two of his favourite pastimes, going for a drive and enjoying a good conversation. In the quieter winter months, Harold could often be found putting in time in front of the television watching Wheel of Fortune or a hockey game.
Sadly, in the last few years, and more particularly in recent months, Harold’s health has declined further, whereby he and Mary downsized again calling Chesley home in September of 2024. As most of us know, getting rid of our “stuff” and toys is hard but thankfully Harold donated his prized 72’ Ford 750 to the Bruce County Heritage Association, so we will all be able to enjoy it for years to come. He was also instrumental in helping establish, a build the Heritage Trail in Chesley.
Harold was a loving family man, who was extremely dedicated to not only his job, and business, but to those of us who called him family or friend. His smile and many stories will live on in all of us for years to come.
Sadly, Harold passed away on Thursday, October 24, 2024, surrounded by his loving family, after a long and valiant battle with cancer. He was 78 years old.
Loving partner and best friend of Mary Hallam. Cherished brother of Ron (Linda) of Paisley, Joan Gibbons, and Brad (Darlene), all of Chesley. Harold will be fondly remembered by Mary’s siblings, Steve (Tracy) Hallam, and Judy (Wayne) Murray, as well as by his many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Dearly missed by his four-legged and driving companions, Gwen, and Sandy. Harold was predeceased by his brother Elroy, and parents Robert and Marion (Smart) Thomson.
Visitation will be held at Rhody Family Funeral Home, Chesley on Wednesday from 5 – 8 p.m. A memorial service honouring Harold’s life will be held at the Klages Mill, Chesley on Thursday, October 31, 2024, at 11 a.m. Inurnment in Chesley Cemetery Columbarium.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Chesley Hospital Foundation or Brightshores Health System Owen Sound Foundation, two facilities that provided amazing care and compassion to Harold during his illness, would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.
We are so sad to hear of Harold’s passing. We will miss the many phone
calls over the years, his visits, all the interesting conversations and many many laughs together. We will never forget his struggle and the fight against his illness. Harold was a true friend.
So sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. Our sincere condolences to the entire Thomson families. Harold was one of the good ones. Rest in Peace Harold, you’ve earned it.
Sorry to hear about Harold
So sorry for your loss. Shirley and Lloyd Waugh
Sorry to hear of this. Our condolences.
So sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. Our sincere condolences. We are thinking of you all during this difficult time. ❤️
We are thinking of you Mary and your family. Always enjoyed having a visit with Harold. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary and family.
Mom and I are sorry and sad to hear of Harold’s passing. It was a hard fight and from what I saw in the brief times seeing you both, he fought hard all the way.
Thinking of you and yours and sending hugs.. Extra hugs to “Gwen”…she will miss Harold and she will be comfort to you for sure.
You will be missed Harold…Will miss seeing you….. Our sympathies..
So sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. Our thoughts are with Mary and the family during this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Our condolences on Harold’s passing.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family Mary.
Condolences Ron and Linda, so sorry for your loss.
Deepest sympathy Mary. He will be missed
Sorry for your loss. Always enjoyed his visits on the farm. Just for a short time, but usually was longer.
He left a lot of memories for everyone who knew him. Try to keep some of them close.
Cheryl and I a so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to the Thomson families.
Our sincerest sympathies to the families he was a great man and will be missed by many..❤️
Mary – so sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. We were blessed to have such great neighbours for so many years. Sending our sincere condolences.
Mary and family. Harold was a very good friend and Chuck and I will miss him very much
So sorry to hear about Harold. He was a great neighbor always had a wave , friendly and time to chat.
Very sad news for the community. Harold will be driving dump trucks in heaven. So sorry for the families loss. Gone too soon.
Sorry to hear that Harold has lost his battle with cancer. He was always up for a friendly chat. Our deepest condolences to all.
Sorry to hear of Harold’s passing.
Always friendly and knew who you were.
My sympathy to the family.
Sincere sympathy to Mary and the Thomson family. Another good guy has passed away. Thoughts and Prayers. Rita (Sloan) Hunt
Mary I’m so sorry to hear of Harold’s passing…I’m so happy I had a chance to see and talk to both of you a few short weeks ago…may he RIP and if there is anything I can do even an ear for you to talk to…I’m here
I thought some prayers are with you at this time of great loss.
Condolences to you all.
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. He will be missed. Our condolences to all.
Harold was always a fun guy to be around he will be missed by many my condolences to his complete family
My condolences to you all with the passing of Harold.
Especially, my condolences to Brad and Darlene & family.
Trudy Kuiper
Sorry for your loss Mary.He always had a smile and wave. Know that he is at peace. Condolences to Thomson family as well.
Condolences to the entire Thomson and Hallam family on the passing of a real friend Harold. He was hard working, honest and generous. You have fought the battle and it’s time now for rest. R.I.P.
So sorry to hear of Harold’s passing,what a great guy,he will be dearly missed by all who knew him.RIP dear friend
I am so sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. He had an infectious laugh and was a really good man. My condolences to all.
❤🙏 sent to the family’s
Mary, so sorry for your loss of your dear Harold. He was a great friend and neighbour and we will really miss him. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
So sorry for your lost. Hugs and love during this difficult time and the days ahead.
My condolences to the Thomson Family.
So sad to hear of Harold’s passing, he was such a great man, we’ll miss his smile and the wave he always had for everyone. Condolences to Mary and his entire family. RIP dear friend
We’ve lost a best friend!!! Oh how I will miss our visits. Mary I am so sorry to hear this!!! Hugs!!! ❤️❤️
Condolences to the Thomson family as well!!!
Thinking of you all, he will truly be missed ❤️
My condolences to the Thomson family. Harold was a great guy.
Our sincere condolences Mary,Ron, Linda and Thomson family. Love from Beth and Robin.
We cannot tell you how sorry that we are to find out about Harold’s passing. He was a dear dear and special friend of all our family. Our daughters grew up knowing that Harold was always a welcomed guest in our home at any time of day or night. He sure will be missed, and he was “one of a kind”
RIP peace dear Harold. You have fought a tremendous battle.
Sorry for your loss Treasure all the memories.
I was very sorry to hear of Harold’s passing. Many memories of Harold, Dad and their chinwags in the yard! Was quite happy catch up with Harold more recently. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Our sympathies Mary. He had the best smile and heart-felt laugh. <3
Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy to all. He will be missed.
Sincere condolences to Mary and families for the loss of Harold. He will be having everyone smiling in heaven. Hugs.
Condolences to the whole family on the passing of Harold. Many years ago I remember him as a very busy guy always waving from the truck as we passed him on the road. He will be missed!
Our condolences to all families. He will be missed . He was always smiling.
Sincere condolences on the loss of Harold. He was a great guy. You’re in our thoughts and prayers!
Bob Ruthven
Adam Ruthven
My Deepest Sympathy to all the Families at this time