James “Jim” was welcomed into the world by proud parents Grant and Florence (MacDonald) Cavill on July 27, 1946, in Hanover. Jim was the eldest sibling of Jack, Janet, Joyce, and Joe. The Cavill family lived on a beef farm on the 4th of Elderslie. Jim and his siblings attended the S.S #12 one-room schoolhouse on the 2nd of Elderslie and then went on to attend Chesley High School. From a young age, farming was in Jim’s blood. He helped his dad with the chores, and Jim was a member of junior farmers. When Jim was sixteen, his father died in a tragic farming accident, so Jim quickly took on the father figure role to his younger siblings, and continued to work hard on the farm to make money and provide for the family. Jim would drive the tractor to school and pick up feed on his way home. He also worked many side jobs to make money, such as working for the Bruce County Road Department after school. Jim attended the University of Guelph for Agriculture for a few short months, he had to leave because of health issues and later decided not to return because of all the work there was to do at home and to help his family.
Although he was working hard, Jim knew how to have fun. There was a group of neighbourhood kids; Harold Thomson, Keith Elder, Francis Halliday, Don McAllister, Elroy Thomson, and Murray Garrett, that spent many days and made memories together. Jim owned his own race car, and he would work on it with his friends, and drive it in local races. One story that he loved to share with his family was when Jim, Harold and Keith drove the pickup truck out west with a mattress in the back cab, taking turns driving, to attend the Calgary Stampede. I’m sure there were many special memories made on that trip!
Jim had many, many friends. He enjoyed day trips away, auction sales, and joking backing back and forth with all the people he would see every day.
Jim began driving truck for Steve Duff, then he started building barns and sheds for J & H Fleming Builders, and in 1969, he started working for Alf and Shirley Lang driving the fuel truck in Elmwood. He also helped the Langs with farming, and doing pickups and deliveries every day, often sleeping on their couch, as he was back up early for work the next day. 1974 was a big year for Jim. He purchased the fuel business from the BP, and established James Cavill Fuels. This was also the year he met Bonnie Darlene Richards. They dated for a year and were married on November 14, 1975 at St. John’s United Church in Chesley. At that time, Bonnie was living in an apartment in Chesley, so once married, Jim moved in with Bonnie. After a year, they purchased the Cavill family farm and moved the business to the farm as well. Bonnie worked closely with Jim on the farm and in the business, answering the phone and doing the books.
On November 26, 1978, Jim and Bonnie proudly welcomed their daughter Sarah. Sarah quickly became Jim’s sidekick. Jim built a box that went in the tractor so Sarah could sleep in the box while he was in the fields. From the moment she could walk, Jim taught Sarah how to drive a tractor and the lawnmower. They took one family trip when Sarah was four, to Santa’s Village.
Jim and Sarah were two peas in a pod, and they worked well together. Sarah helped with the business when she could throughout the years, however when her girls were off to school and were old enough she was able to return and work with him daily. One time when Sarah maybe wasn’t the happiest with Jim was on Sarah and Greg’s wedding day. Jim was responsible for bringing their dog to the wedding so she could be the flower dog. When Jim let the dog out, the dog was sprayed by a skunk. Jim, not knowing what the best thing to do was, got a can of air freshener, and tried to eliminate the smell that way. When that didn’t work, Bonnie went out to get peroxide and baking soda to help with the smell. As most people know, it is really hard to get rid of the skunk smell, so when the dog arrived at the wedding, the smell of skunk was still very strong, despite their best efforts to hide the smell!
Jim was a very active member of St. John’s United Church. He was involved with the Chesley Optimist Club, and the International Club. He was a big part of the Saugeen Antique Power Show and later joined the Bruce County Heritage Association.
Jim never stopped his odd jobs, pumping gas every Friday night for the Monks, working for the Bruce County School Board blowing snow in Chesley, and sweeping all the Bruce County School parking lots. He broke into the market garden business with his tomato farm.
He supplied year-end trophies and medals to local Minor Hockey teams and Paisley Skating Club and 2 baseball teams. Jim was a gold sponsor of the Hanover Barons and would try to attend every game, even away games. Jim could find any excuse to go for a drive. If there was a tornado that had touched down somewhere, he would have to go check it out. If there was a part he needed, he would make the trip, and always made sure he never went hungry. You could never miss that pickup truck, as he was always driving 80-85 km with the “Cavill 3” licence plate! Jim took a lot of pride in his tractors. He liked his tractors like he liked his ketchup… RED!! Jim showed his antique tractors and threshing machine in local shows but didn’t like to take the threshing machine if it was raining!
Jim enjoyed camping at Saugeen Bluffs, and then parking the trailer permanently in Sauble Beach. He enjoyed coming up after a long day’s work but right home the next morning. Jim liked doing word searches and listening to Charley Pride and old country music. He also enjoyed getting out on his snowmobile. In recent years, he enjoyed watching the 6 p.m. news, Golden Girls, Three’s Company, and on Fridays, he always watched Dallas. Although oftentimes, the TV watched Jim more than Jim watched it, as he would fall asleep with the remote in his hand. He could be asleep for an hour, and if you tried to steal the remote from his hand, he would immediately wake up. Like many farmers, all Jim needed was a quick ten-minute catnap on the kitchen couch after lunch, and he was good to go for the rest of the day. When Jim would go anywhere, it was not often that his clothes would be completely clean, usually having some sort of stain on his shirt!
Jim spent every Sunday morning at Cravings in Hanover with friends, and would always be sure to bring breakfast home for Bonnie. Jim liked his sweets. When offered a treat, he would say “Oh, I shouldn’t” but then ate it anyway. He had a tendency to pick up treats, but they wouldn’t all make it home. Jim would stop at Schultz’s Bakery for a dozen donuts, and only come home with six, saying the box “fell open” on the way home. One day in the work truck, Sarah picked up two coffees, a croissant for herself and a muffin for him. When she got back in the truck, both the croissant and muffin were gone, and Jim had eaten them! He enjoyed his coffee stops, Pepsi and a meal of meat, potatoes, and vegetables. He would have a “bucket of cereal” for breakfast every morning. When there was no milk left in the fridge, most people would eat something else for breakfast. Not Jim! He would pour orange juice on his cereal instead!
Jim’s favourite meals were free meals! When they would go for a meal, he would ask Bonnie if they had any coupons (Gift Cards) people had given him! Usually, his family could order for him, knowing it was either a banquet burger with fries (definitely no mayo) or fish and chips. No matter the meal, there HAD to be Heinz Ketchup. Jim and Sarah often joked that they had to put ketchup on everything Bonnie cooked in order to get it down! He put ketchup on his ketchup, and often left a little in his mustache!
Jim loved joking with people when he was out and giving everyone a hard time! Rarely did Jim swear, and when he did, he would apologize right after. Jim was very caring and selfless. He had a heart of gold, putting others’ needs above his own. He loved to help, and never looked for praise. Jim wasn’t very affectionate, however, his family and friends always knew that he loved them. Every Valentine’s Day, Jim bought flowers for Bonnie. His love grew for his family the day his two granddaughters, Sierra and Addison, were born. When Sierra was born, it was one of the best days of his life, but it was also hard for him because Sarah wouldn’t be available to help him as much. When Sierra and Addison came into the family, they immediately had Jim wrapped around their finger. He spoiled them with new bikes, a trampoline, kids gator, a swing set, Kayaks and more. In turn, the family bought Jim a golf cart and painted it red for his birthday. He took them for many tours in it and would even let them drive. Jim and Bonnie would take the girls to Walmart, McDonalds or Harvey’s, and no matter what, there was always room for ice cream at Brant Drive-In or Dairy Queen.
Jim had dealt with health issues for some years, however, he never stopped working. Jim was working up until the Monday before he passed away on Thursday, October 12, 2023, at Brightshores Health Systems in Owen Sound in his 78th year.
Beloved husband of Bonnie (Richards). Loving father of Sarah (Greg) Cavill-Hutton of Paisley. Cherished grandfather of Sierra and Addison, and family dog Cash. Dear brother of Jack (Ellen) of R.R.#3 Chesley, Janet (Don) Gransden of Owen Sound and Joyce McDonald of Walkerton, and brother-in-law of Joan (Jim) Ruth, Freeda Davidson, and Betty (Don) Duff. Jim will be missed by many nieces, nephews, and members of the Richards family. Predeceased by his brother Joe Cavill, and his parents Grant and Florence (MacDonald) Cavill.
Visitation will be held at Rhody Family Funeral Home, Chesley, on Wednesday, October 18, 2023, from 2 – 4 and 7 – 9 p.m. A funeral service honouring Jim’s life will be held at the Chesley Community Centre on Thursday, October 19, 2023, at 2 p.m. Interment in St. Andrew’s Cemetery, Elderslie Township.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Bruce County Heritage Steam Show (cheques payable to the Bruce County Heritage Association), or to the Grey Bruce Animal Shelter would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.
Dear Bonnie,Sara and Greg,Sierra and Addison our deepest sympathies to all of you . Jim was a wonderful business man. He always had time to chat and catch up on the family. Jim will leave a big hole behind because he was do well known. Treasure your memories of great times.
Sending lots of hugs,love and prayers to you all.
Sincerely,
Roger,Sherry, Tiff and Brent Caldwell
Bonnie, Sara, Greg, Sierra and Addison- We were so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Losing a Huband, Father or Grandpa is a difficult thing. Remember how lucky you all are to have had him in your lives.
Our deepest sympathies too all of you.
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg, Sierra & Addison, sending our deepest sympathies to all of you at this difficult time. We hope you find peace in all your happy memories of your husband, father and grandpa. He will be missed terribly.
Bonnie, Sarah and family,
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your husband and Father and Grandfather.
He will be sadly missed.
We were shocked and sadden to hear of the passing of Jim. To Bonnie, Sarah and family we send our deepest condolences and prayers. Jim was a wonderful man and is going to be missed by many, many people.
So very sorry for your loss Bonnie and family ! Cherish all the wonderful memories and hold them close to your heart !
So sorry for your loss Bonnie ! Remember no more pain. Cherish all the wonderful memories and hold them close to your heart. Hugs
Bonnie Im so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I worked with RP mobile pressure wash and washed his fuel truck for years. Jim was an amazing man. Always welcome there most Every time we were there Jim Bonnie and Sarah would come and visit. Rest in peace. My condolences to the family
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg, Sierra & Addison, Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with your entire family as you mourn the loss of Jim.
My deepest sympathy bonnie , Sarah and family 💕
Bonnie, Sarah & family – my deepest sympathy to you as you mourn Jim’s passing. He will be greatly missed. Praying for you and all the family.
Our sincere sympathy to Bonnie and Sarah. Jim had a special winkle in his eyes whenever he was up to some mischief. Alway treasure your memories and he will forever live in your hearts.
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg,Sierra and Addison, we are deeply sorry for your loss! Jim was always there for the Steam Show with his threshing machine and was a great help at meetings, or wherever needed! He will be deeply missed by all his fuel route customers, and community! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Bonnie, Sarah and family my thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Deepest sympathy to Bonnie, Sarah and the rest of the Cavill and Richards Families.
Dear Bonnie & Sarah and family so very sorry to hear Jim has passed. He will be greatly missed. We are thinking of you all at this sad time.
Dear Bonnie, Sarah& family,
So sorry to hear that Jim passed away. Always saw him on the roads with the fuel truck.
Sending thoughts & prayers at this difficult time❤️
Our deepest sympathy to you Bonnie, Sarah, Greig, and Girls. Jim will be greatly missed, by you and the greater community.
Our prayers are with you in the days ahead. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg, Sierra, Addison and Cash my heartfelt sorrow in the lose of a wonderful man.
Sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Condolences to you Sarah and Bonnie and all your family.
Cheryl and I are sadden to hear of Jim’s passing. So sorry for your loss, our deepest condolences to the families.
Bonnie, Sarah and Family. So sorry for your loss. Jim was a great man. You’re in my thoughts and prayers!
So sad. Hugs to you, Sarah and Bonnie and the rest of your family. He was the main stay around our place for a lot of years. He worked right up until the last minute. He will be missed.
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg and Girls
My sincere sympathy on Jim’s passing. Thinking of you all.♥
Jim always had time to talk whenever bumping into him on the street and always had a wave when we met on the road. He will be greatly missed!
So so sorry to hear about Jim, all our thoughts are with you all.
We are so sorry to hear of Jims’ passing . Sending our condolences to Bonnie, Sarah, Greg, Sierra, Addison and the Cavill family. Jim was a hard worker who also loved a practical joke or two. Keeping all of you in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Sarah and family, my sincere condolences, treasure all your beautiful memories of your Dad
Bonnie, Sarah and family, we were so sorry to hear the news about Jim. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Our sincere sympathy Sarah, Greg and all the family. Thinking of you all.
So sorry for your loss Sarah and Bonnie and family. Jim was such a nice guy. He will be missed.
So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Deepest Condolences to you all.
Sorry for your loss Bonnie, Sarah & Greg. My condolences
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this heart full time. Jim was a wonderful person and I will always remember his laugh and stories. He will be missed by many.
We will miss the heart of gold that he possessed and his never, ever quit attitude. The quiet way of going about giving and never expecting anything in return. I am so very sorry for the loss of Jim. My heart goes out to Bonnie and family.
Bonnie, Sarah and family. We are so sorry to hear about Jim’s passing. He will be missed by many. May your fond memories guide you thru this difficult time.
Our deepest sympathy for you Bonnie, Sarah, Greg Sierra and Addison. Jim was a good man and he will be missed.
Bonnie, Sarah, Greg, Sierra and Addison, sending you our deepest sympathies in the loss of Jim.
Dear Bonnie,Sarah and Greg Sierra and Addison.Our sincere sympathy of the loss of a wonderful husband,Dad and Grandpa. Jim was a wonderful businessman and will be missed by many.We send you all love and hugs and prayers. 🙏❤🙏
Roger and Sherry Caldwell
Tiff and Brent Henhoeffer
My heartfelt condolences to the Cavill family. So sorry to hear this Bonnie & Sarah. Sure going to miss seeing Jim in the truck..
So sorry to hear the passing of Jim. To Bonnie , Sarah and her family, words can not reflect what a great member of our community he was. He will truly be missed. Our community will have a hole in its heart. Our memories of him will stay with us forever.
Sending my deepest sympathy to the family!
Sarah, Bonnie, Greg & Girls
My sincere sympathies on Jim’s passing. Thinking of you all.
Jim… you always told me how you were going to ” leave a pie” for my Grandpa over at St. Andrews. And I was hoping to see you to tell yo to leave one for my Grandmother too now that she’s there. And now you all will eating pie up in Heaven together.
I’m going to miss you drive the fuel truck down the road at around 8 20 every morning.
Sarah, Bonnie and family… deepest sympathy to you and your family from myself and my Mom.
Thinking of you ..
You will be missed Jim…
My condolences Bonnie and family for your loss.
So sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad Sarah. There is nothing like the Dad and daughter bond. We are thinking of you and hoping your heart heals with the love you receive from those closest to you.
Bonnie, Sarah and family, Jack and Ellen, Janet and Don, and Joyce, so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Our condolences to all of you, he will be dearly missed as the husband, father, grandfather and big brother to all. Please accept our sympathy at this time of your loss.
To the Cavill Family:
Please accept our Sincere Condolences on the passing of Jim. May the memories live on in your hearts….
Deepest Sympathy,
Bob & Dale Kelly
Sarah and family sending condolences to you.Had a lovely visit with your parents at the fireman’s breakfast.