Theodore “Ted” Wilbert was welcomed into the world by proud parents Alvin and Loretta (Mawhinney) Rier on Wednesday, March 25, 1942. Ted was right in the middle of his siblings, when he joined older siblings Dolores, Jack, and Betty, and followed by Sharon, Larry, and Randy. The Rier family lived on a mixed farm on the 12th of Bentinck. Farming was always in Ted’s blood. He was always involved on the farm and had a few accidents. When he was only five years old, he cut his finger off in a hay mower. In another instance, Ted ran over his brother with a tractor (he recovered). When he was about 10, he “borrowed” the family car and drove into Elmwood to visit his grandparents. He might have got away with it other than he knocked over a fence post at their place. At a young age, he was also a very avid baseball player. Ted was one to watch when he was pitching, half of the time you couldn’t see it coming!
Ted attended SS#7 just down the road from the farm and then went on to attend Chesley High School. While in high school at age 15, he met a young girl by the name of Bonnie Yvonne Martin. They hit it off and dated for a few years, and they wed on February 23, 1963, in the Desboro United Church. In the same year, Ted and Bonnie’s life changed when they welcomed their son Ben, followed by Wendy in 1965, and Rick in 1968. Ted made a large swing for the kids in the backyard, however, sometimes they got a little scared because when he would push them, they ended up a little higher than they wanted!
Before Ted and Bonnie were married, Ted was farming with his dad. Once they were married, they bought a cow/calf farm on County Road 10, outside of Elmwood, where they still lived. Ted began working for Elmwood Manufacturing, making only $1/hour! At the time, their grocery bill was $10/week, but they still managed to make it work! In 1965, he began driving transport trucks for Maislin, then with Douglas Point, Smitty’s Furniture and then with Steinman for many years. Ted retired in 2014. Ted dedicated his life to working hard driving trucks and farming to provide for his family. He enjoyed the small moments he shared with them and memories on the farm together.
Ted and Bonnie enjoyed their quality time together, and enjoyed a few trips! In 1990, they drove in their van out East. Ted being ever frugal thought they should set up a mattress in the back of the van and spend a few nights there. When they were in P.E.I., Bonnie wanted to see the house of Anne of Green Gabels. Ted had no interest, so he left Bonnie to see the house herself. When she came out, Ted was nowhere to be found. She finally found him in the back of the van, asleep, and no longer able to drive. Bonnie ended up driving the van, and it is safe to say Bonnie was a little mad at Ted when he woke up! Another time that Ted and Bonnie went on a road trip wasn’t even an intentional one! In 1997, they purchased a new truck. Ted mentioned to Bonnie to pack a few things to go for a drive, and the next thing they knew, they were a little further away than they originally planned! When the kids called Ted to see why they weren’t home from their drive a week later, he explained that their “small drive” took them to Thunder Bay to see family!
Ted enjoyed owning horses over the years and watching the horse races, in person and on TV. He also liked attending stock car races and local dances. Ted and Bonnie spent many Saturday nights with other couples playing euchre, and he always liked challenging someone to a game. Ted liked watching the Toronto Blue Jays, and CP24, always on mute! He loved country music, with the Willie Nelson Roadhouse Radio station and C.K.N.X being favourites. Ted liked reading the flyers, especially Food Basics and Walmart to see where they could get the best deals for the week. He didn’t have it often, but when he got the chance, he loved a well-done steak. Ted liked a good glass of whiskey, cigarettes and cigars in his early years, and in later years, a cup of coffee.
Ted was fair, honest and hardworking. He was a man of few words, and he typically listened more than he talked. However, when he did talk, you listened. Ted loved his family more than anything in the world. He cherished every moment he had with Bonnie, passed many skills on to his children, and had an unwavering love for his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. When his grandchildren and great-grandchildren were born, the love he had for family grew so much more. Ted loved sitting back and watching the kids play. He played hide and seek, and picked wild berries in the yard with the grandkids. In recent months, Ted’s health declined. Ted passed away at South Bruce Grey Health Centre, Chesley, on Monday, June 10, 2024, in his 83rd year, surrounded by his family.
Beloved husband of Bonnie (Martin) for 61 years. Loving father of Ben (Sheri) of Tara, Wendy Robson of Chesley, and Rick (Linda) of Hanover. Cherished Papa Ted of Justin (Sarah), Tyson (Kayla), Jennifer (Jason), Jonathan (Becky), Chris (Brittany), Riley (Taylor), Rebecca (Dalton), Amy, Brooke (James) and Rachael, and great-grandfather of 11. Dear brother of Jack (Maureen) of Kitchener, Betty Brown of Hanover, Sharon Johnston of Durham, and Randy (Lynn) of Hanover. Ted will be missed by the Martin family, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister Dolores Bailey, his brother Larry Rier, and his parents Alvin and Loretta (Mawhinney) Rier.
A funeral service will be held at St. John’s Lutheran Church, Elmwood, on Friday, June 14, 2024, at 11 a.m. Private interment will be held at St. John’s Lutheran Cemetery, Elmwood.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Chesley Hospital Foundation or the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.
Sorry to hear of Ted’s passing Our thoughts are with Bonnie and family during this difficult time. Please accept our deepest condolences and cherish the many great memories.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Families at this time.
Sorry to hear of the loss of Ted. Wishing all of you peace and comfort.
My condolences to the Rier family. May he RIP 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Bonnie, Ben & Sheri, Wendy, Rick & Linda and families. Sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. Our heartfelt condolences to you all! A great man and neighbor growing up. He will be missed.
Bonnie & Gerald Blake
My sincerest condolences to the River family.
My condolences Wendy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Our sincere condolences to the entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sorry for your loss.
Very sorry for your loss. Our sincere condolences to the entire family. Thinking of you at this time.
Our sincere condolences to Wendy and her family.
Deepest sympathy to you Bonnie and your family at this time. Sending prayers for your family 🙏❤️
Bonnie and family
Our deepest and sincere condolences
Bonnie, Ben & Sheri, Wendy, Rick & Linda and families.
Another great neighbour gone from the 12th… Ted was always smiling, friendly and ready to help out a neighbour in need. Our sympathies and prayers to you all.
So sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. Bonnie , you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My sympathies to you all.
Also very sorry for your loss sympathies to the entire family xo
My sincere condolences to you and your family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
My sincere sympathies to you all! Hugs to you Bonnie, Ben, Wendy, Rick & families! Ted’s smile was contagious. We are witnessing his legacy of love and kindness that continues on through the family and the grandkids! A great man!
Cherish the sweet memories!
Bonnie and the entire Rier family our deepest sympathy to you . May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have made
So sorry for your loss. My condolences to all of the family.
Sorry for your loss. Bessie Robinson
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers that the special memories help to ease the pain.
Bonnie, Wendy, Ben, Rick and families, so very sorry for your loss, he was a very special man and the best Papa Teddy ❤️
Thinking of you Bonnie and family, my deepest sympathy for your loss.
So sorry for your loss Bonnie & Family
Dear Bonnie and family, my sympathy to you and all the family as you mourn the loss of Ted. Know you will miss that smile and sense of humor, but all the treasured memories will also bring you comfort now and into the future. Hugs
Sorry for your deep loss. Prayers and condolences for the family and friends.
Bonnie and families our deepest condolences.
Cherish the memories ❤️
Bonnie & family:
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May the memories bring you peace at this difficult time.
Our sincere condolences to the Rier family
So sorry for your loss Bonnie, Ben/Sheri, Wendy, Rick and your families. deepest condolences treasure the memories
My sympathies to Ted’s family. He was one of my favourite customers when I worked at Elmwood Lunch in high school.
Ben, Sheri and family, sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest condolences to all.
Bonnie & family:
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May the love and memories help you in the days ahead
Dearest Cousin Bonnie and family. We are so sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. He will certainly be missed. Cherish all of the wonderful memories. Hugs from Ruth and Harold Klages.
So very sorry to hear of your loss Wendy and family. My sincerest condolences to you all. 🙏
Very sorry to hear about Ted. Our thoughts are with the entire family. Mark Davis and Carolyn Walker.
Bonnie and family, please except my condolences. Cherish all the wonderful memories.
Sending heartfelt condolences to the entire Rier family! May your many treasured memories bring you comfort and peace.
Bonnie and family , you have my deepest sympathy ,
We are very sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. Our thoughts are with you Ben, Sheri and family. From your friends at Trillium Mutual
Deepest sympathy to the entire Rier family
So sorry to hear this. Deepest Sympathy to the families. Ted and Bonnie and I go back a long time. Ted will be missed.
Ben and family. Very sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Our deepest condolences.
Thinking of you and your family as you celebrate the life of your Dad. Sorry for your loss.
Deepest Sympathy to Ted’s family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Our thoughts are with the entire Rier family
Hugs to you all as you cherish the memories of a great man.
Ben, so sorry to hear about your dad, I am thinking of your entire family.