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December

Jim Westenberg

Rhody Family Funeral Home

“Books are a uniquely portable magic.” – Stephen King

Jim loved to read. In fact, as long as it was a good book, he wouldn’t usually put it down until he was done reading it. Did he have a favourite author you may ask…. well, that answer is simple, Stephen King of course! When not reading, Jim challenged himself daily with the Toronto Star crossword. For Jim, every day on this beautiful planet presented a new challenge and opportunity, and he faced them all head on!

James was born on Tuesday, January 20, 1942 in Chesley to parents Bruno and Wilda (Robertson) Westenberg. He joined older brothers Fred (1937) and Bill (1939). In time, the boys welcomed their younger sisters Pat (1943) and Ruth (1945). The Westenberg family resided in Chesley where Bruno owned and operated a mink ranch. The kids attended Chesley Public School and later, Chesley District High School. It was there that Jim was first introduced to Sharon Ellen Loraine Opie, who was three years his junior. Their lives however took them in separate directions and Jim went to work in the construction field after completing high school. This position enabled him to travel throughout the province working a variety of jobs.

As fate would have it, Brian, Sharon’s brother, ran into Jim in 1968. He reported this meeting back to his sister who quickly responded, “Ask him if he wants to take me out?” Jim followed through on that request and often said that he fell in love with Sharon’s kids first! The couple were married on March 21, 1970 in Brantford whereby Jim instantly became a father to Sharon’s children Jim (1962) and Lorri (1965). After a brief stint living in Owen Sound and a few years on the 4th of Saugeen, the family soon settled on the 6th of Elderslie. It was while living there that the family welcomed Bryanna in 1972. This was also the year that Jim joined Local #1788 as an apprentice electrician. Over the next 35 years Jim worked for Ontario Hydro as an electrician. His incredible work ethic and ability to always get the job done earned him the nickname “Rambo”. Stories were commonly told of how Jim didn’t subscribe to be a “rule follower”, often pushing the envelope in the workplace. Standing on the top rung of a ladder at work that clearly read ‘this is not a step” was commonplace for Jim, often to the chagrin of the safety officer. Most of his career was spent at Bruce Power, with a few short stints at other power plants around the province over the years. He was a member of the IBEW (International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers) and retired from the profession in 2007 at the age of 65. As fate would have it, all three of the Westenberg children followed Jim’s original dream and entered the field of law enforcement, where they have all made their father proud and flourished in their own careers.

In 1971 Sharon and Jim bought their beloved property on Bruce Road 17. In 1973, Jim began to build their new home, using many of the skills he learned in his younger years. Over the next three years he used all his free time and his own two hands to construct their current home. In November of 1976 the Westenbergs officially moved in and the couple enjoyed this property together for the remaining 41 years of Jim’s life.

To say that Jim loved the outdoors would be an understatement. He had a passion for hunting, fishing and trapping, spending countless hours enjoying these pastimes. He was a proud member of the “Half Hour Club” and regularly hunted at a property the group owned together south of Tobermory. Jim was also a member of the Ontario Federation of Anglers & Hunters and assisted his wife with her involvement in Ducks Unlimited. Time was also spent enjoying the outdoors with his family. Over the years the Westenberg family enjoyed countless camping trips and in later years, time at a cottage, where Jim treasured his time with his four grandchildren. “Papa” (as he was affectionately referred to by his grandkids) had a wealth of knowledge and insight that greatly influenced his grandchildren and their lives.

In his free time Jim enjoyed being involved in and watching ANYTHING sports. In his youth he played hockey, baseball and basketball. He was a swimming official during Bryanna’s high school years, and enjoyed curling as well as playing “Old Timer’s” hockey. When playing wasn’t an option anymore, Jim enjoyed watching sports on TV. The New England Patriots was one of his favourite teams and it was common knowledge in the Westenberg household that you didn’t bother Jim when he was engaged in watching a sporting event. Anyone that knew Jim was aware of his fondness for a particular brown bottle beverage. He wasn’t picky, the kind or temperature of his beer did not matter to him. When it came to music, John Denver and Kenny Rogers were some of Jim’s favourite artists. He also made time for his beloved four-legged companions over the years. He and Sharon often had a couple dogs as companions as well as a variety of cats, with Socksie being one of his favourites. Lola, their Scottie is missing him already! Travel was also something that the couple did often. Jim’s travels took him to the likes of Hawaii, Alaska, the Caribbean (several times), California, Canada (coast to coast) and Europe, which he had a particular fondness for. They also enjoyed a yearly trip to Cuba. For 28 straight years, he and Sharon travelled to this beautiful island. Over the years they formed many life-long friendships in Cuba but their bond with Miguel and his wife Odalys stood out. In fact, the couple has travelled to Canada to visit the Westenbergs a few times in recent years and were here with Sharon and Jim, experiencing their first Canadian winter, at the time of Jim’s death.

Jim was a hardworking, honest man who wasn’t afraid to speak his mind and show off his quick wit. He could be opinionated and at times was unfiltered. He also had a flair for the English language, as those who were close to him were aware. “This here is the one thing” often preceded a dissertation (fact-filled or not) that was soooo Jim. He had a variety of T-shirts that he cherished. One of his favourites read, “Does this shirt make my Bass look big?”

Sadly, Jim passed away suddenly, after an enjoyable breakfast with his wife and a small group of friends, on Thursday, December 28, 2017 in his 76th year.

Beloved husband and best friend of Sharon (Opie). Loving father of Jim (Diane) of Windsor, Lorri (Dan) Trafelet of Southampton and Bryanna (Scott) Herniman of Kitchener. Jim will live on in the hearts and minds of his grandchildren Emily, Shane, Brett and Reese as well as his siblings Pat (Roy) Ratcliffe of Mount Forest, Bill (Nancy) Westenberg of Wiarton and Ruth Farrow of Holland Centre. He will be fondly remembered by Sharon’s brothers Brian (Imka) Colyer of Brantford, Dean Opie (Debbie Moore) of Port Elgin and his aunts Gertrude Watson and Irma McSporran and their families. Jim was predeceased by his brother Fred (Betsy), nephews Randy and Steven and his parents Bruno and Wilda (Robertson) Westenberg

A celebration of life for Jim will be held on May 26, 2018 from 2 to 6 p.m. at the Westenberg family home. Words of Remembrance will be held at 3 p.m. Please join us to commemorate his life well lived.

Memorial donations to the Grey-Bruce Animal Shelter, Saugeen Memorial Hospital Foundation or Chesley Hospital Foundation would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.

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Doug Milne
May 24, 2018

So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing we enjoyed our summers together when we were kids and remember the whole family with great fondness. Hope the rest of the family is doing well and know that you will be in our thoughts and our prayers. Love Doug & Kathy Milne

Kim and Shannon Ferguson
January 18, 2018

Sharon, Jim, Lorri, and Bryanna and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Jim’s passing. He was a great guy and will be missed by all who knew him. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that so many people are thinking of you at this sad time.

Guy and Tracey
January 18, 2018

Ma, Lorri, Bry, Jimmy and families. We were both shocked and very sad to hear about Pa Westie. He was a gentle soul whose laughter we’ll never forget. Keep your memories of Pa close

Charles & Debbie Bell
January 10, 2018

Thinking of you at this time. Blessings!

Hal & Jeanine Czeck
January 8, 2018

Sharon and Family,
We can’t believe Hal and Jim were making plans on the 26th to come out salmon fishing and on the 28th he sailed without us to his last fishing hole. The many years we had in Cuba celebrating anniversaries and birthdays will be held close in our hearts forever. The fun of coming out for The Big O party, Brys’ wedding and lazying in the pool are just a few of our fond memories. Our tears and thoughts are with all of you, as we feel Jim’s handprint on our hearts.
Jeanine and Hal

Doug & Vonda Ankenmann
January 6, 2018

Our deepest sympathies to you all. Jim was a great friend over many, many years. I will remember the good-times always.

Michelle McCrossan (Dunford)
January 6, 2018

So very sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. I remember him always greeting me with such a sweet smile, with his whole face, and a great big hug. Sending you all big hugs and much love.

Chuck and Linda Stuckey
January 5, 2018

Sharon. Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers!

Gary & Mary-Lou Dale
January 4, 2018

Our heartfelt sympathy Sharon, to you and you family on the sudden passing of Jim. You have so many wonderful memories through the years, may they bring you peace at this difficult time.

Jim and Sandra Rackley
January 4, 2018

Sharon and family, We are so sad to hear of Jim’s sudden passing. Jim was a wonderful person and he will be sorely missed. Sharon, from the stories that you told us at SDSS it was obvious that he was a devoted husband, father and Papa. Lean on the support of your friends and family to help you get through this most difficult time.

Rick and Joan Denomy
January 4, 2018

Sharon and Family

Please accept our sincere sympathy in Jim’s passing. May warm memories as well as the love of family and friends help ease some pain. Our thoughts are with you.

Dave and Melinda Myette
January 4, 2018

Sharon we are deeply saddened at the news of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Terry & Darlene
January 3, 2018

Sharon, so sorry to hear of your loss. Our many memories of Jim started with him installing the starting blocks for the Breakers swim team. He was always there to help and this is just one memory.

Trix Smit
January 3, 2018

Dear Sharon, As I finally sit down in sunny Cali. I saw the sad news and I want you to know how sorry I am about your loss. Know, hat my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hope to see you in Spring, Trix

Arlene & Peter Windsor
January 3, 2018

Deepest sympathy Sharon and family.
A tremendous loss to all of you and everyone that knew Jim.

Erin O'Sullivan
January 3, 2018

Sharon, I am so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. He was a warm and wonderful man that I remember well from the SDSS Christmas parties you hosted at your home all those years ago. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and take care of yourselves.

Janice and Fran Sanagan
January 3, 2018

Sharon, it was so good to see you back with our SDSS family. I am so sorry to here of Jim’s death. A big hug to you and your family.

Penny Huettlin
January 3, 2018

Sharon,

So sorry for your loss. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

Penny

Jim and Rona Cobean
January 3, 2018

Sharon & family
So sorry to hear of Jim’s sudden passing. Your wonderful memories will be comforting at this time. Savour those memories.

Vern and Donna Legge
January 3, 2018

Sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Will always remember the times we met , on the 8 th of Elderslie duck hunting or Elderslie Swap deer hunting in past years. Also fond memories at the Chantry Derby weigh station.
With Sympathy Vern and Donna

Marshall Gray
January 2, 2018

Dearest Jim, and family. My sincerest condolence with your loss. My prayers and thoughts today,
Love,Marsh

Terry and Kaaren
January 2, 2018

My dearest friend Sharon. I so wish I could be there to hug you, hold you close and laugh and cry as we remember your Jim !! What a guy he was! So many memories to hold close to your heart. Our prayers are with you, Jimmy, Lori and Bryanna and families.

Deb & Bruce Whalen
January 2, 2018

Dear Sharon and family, we’re so sorry to hear that Jim passed. He will be remembered by all who knew him with Love and Laughter as we recall all the good time

Adrian Kahgee
January 2, 2018

Sharon, my family and I are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bryan & Brenda Elliott
January 2, 2018

Sharon and family
So very sorry to hear of your sudden loss of your Husband, father and grandfather.
I know Jim will be greatly missed by all, your support together will help you through this sorrowing time. Thinking of you all!!

Denise & Johann
January 1, 2018

Sharon & family, We are very sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all and we send our heartfelt condolences.

Bud Halpin
January 1, 2018

Sharon, Jenny and I are so sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers, sincerely, Bud and Jenny Halpin.

Karen and Steve Zsargo
January 1, 2018

We are very saddened by Jim’s passing. May all the great memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Keli Snyder (Dudgeon)
January 1, 2018

Sharon and family
I am sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. Thinking of all of you. My sincere condolences.

Jim Lavery & Jane Schwab
January 1, 2018

Sharon, we send our condolences on the sudden loss of Jim. I spent many years working with him and I knew I could always count on his help when it was needed.

Lynn and Steve Thede
January 1, 2018

Dear Sharon and family;
Thinking of you, so sorry for your loss.

Joni Lang
December 31, 2017

Dear Sharon and Family! So shocked to hear of Jim’s passing! Sharon, you and I just shared lunch at the beginning of December, and I’m so sad to hear this news! You always talked so fondly of your Jim, and all of the times you shared together. You will truly miss your best friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and the always. Joni

Deb & Scott Millar
December 31, 2017

Sharon and family.
So shocked and sorry to hear about Jim. You are in our thoughts.
Treasure all the memories that you have created together.

Jim & Laurie Fleming
December 31, 2017

Sharon and Family, we’re were totally shocked to hear the news. Please accepted our heartfelt sympathy and love.

Ray Underwood
December 31, 2017

Sharon and Family. My sincere condolences to all of you.

Terry&Darlene Seigel
December 31, 2017

Sharon we are saddened to hear about your loss. Our condolences go out to you and your family.

Sebastien, Mary-Anne &Family
December 31, 2017

Dear Bryanna, Scott and Family,
We are sorry to hear the news of your father’s passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Sebastien, Mary-Anne and family

Bill & Cathy Esplen
December 31, 2017

Sharon & family – you and Jim were an important part of my parents lives ( Dave & Sybil Esplen) & they always spoke highly of you.
Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers as you go through this sad time in your life.

Jim & Cath Coles
December 31, 2017

Sharon,
So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing.
I will miss our long chats back in the woods and the search for puffballs.

Joyce Kearns
December 31, 2017

Dear Sharon and family. We are so sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. We will always remember the great time in Cancun and the start of a great friendship. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy.
Bryan & Joyce Kearns and family.

Chris & Stephen Wilson
December 31, 2017

Sharon, Are deepest sympathy. Jimmy was our best ever neighbour !!! We will always remember his love for the outdoors, and his love for you.

Our deepest sympathy. Love you Chris & Steve (The Wilsons)

Sergio and Connie Vidotto
December 31, 2017

Our deepest condolence to Jim’s family. The family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Ross &Emily McLean
December 31, 2017

Sharon and Family .Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Keith & Lynne Steingart
December 31, 2017

We were so saddened to learn of the sudden passing of Jim. Sharon, you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult of times.

Bob & Susan Cook
December 31, 2017

To Sharon and Family,
We were shocked and saddened to learn of your deep loss. We extend to you our heartfelt sympathy and hold you all in our prayers.
Bob & Susan Cook

Bill and Judy McKee
December 31, 2017

Sharon, We are thinking of you and your family.

Ron & Bev Berndt
December 31, 2017

Sharon and Families .We so sorry to hear about Big Jim as our boys always called him. All our love and hugs to you all. You have wonderful memories to hold in your heart.

Carol, Terry & Tina Chappell
December 31, 2017

Sharon & Family
Our deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.


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