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Ray Bluhm

Rhody Family Funeral Home

Raymond John Bluhm of Chesley, known for his love of cars, his ability to maintain them — and drive them, died peacefully at Grey Bruce Health Services, Owen Sound on Monday, December 7, 2015 in his 72nd year.

Greater than his passion of cars, especially his black ‘63 Ford Galaxy, was Ray’s love for his wife Ruby, his son Chris and his family Amy and John. As Chris wrote, “Tonight I said goodbye to the greatest man I have ever known. He was my mentor and taught me how to be a good man. He loved me and cared for me when I was hurt or sick. He loved my friends and enjoyed their visits. Most of all he was my Dad and I will never forget how much he loved me, Amy and Big J.”

Ray was born and raised on the Bluhm farm on the 10th of Brant. He attended high school in Walkerton until Grade 10 when he received the opportunity to work at a gas bar in Stoney Creek, living with his aunt and uncle. The years that followed took him to Heirloom in Chesley and then Hydro at The Point and Lines & Station in Tillsonburg. Yet, it was Ray’s greatest pride to have worked at home, for the Town of Chesley, then the Municipality of Arran Elderslie caring for his beloved Chesley Cemetery. It could be said that Ray was a workaholic as he had a great work ethic. He was particular in all he did and was handy to boot.

Ray and Ruby meet in 1972 in Southampton and by October 9, 1982 they were married. This festive occasion took place at St. John’s United Church in Chesley. Ray became Dad to Chris in 1974 and he always made sure he had the time to sit down and talk. Ray was always available to help. “No!” was not in Ray’s vocabulary.

During Ray’s spare time, he enjoyed coaching some Minor Hockey, bartending for local social events and was a Legion Member. Dancing was yet another favourite pastime for Ray, as was going to car shows and seeing other cars. Vacations and weekends were often spent at the trailer in Lobies Park or Port Elgin.

Many Saturday nights were spent watching the horse races in Hanover. He even owned his own horse, “Derby Dan” or maybe better known as “Danny”, Ray’s prized Barrel Horse. If he couldn’t watch it in person, he would often watch a race on TV. He also enjoyed watching hockey, baseball, curling and would never miss the 6 p.m. News. His love for music, took him back to the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s where he enjoyed listening to artists like Johnny Cash and Hank Williams.

“Don’t touch!” was often used in Ray’s vocabulary. This included not touching his car and his many, many, many hats. “Don’t slam the door!” was another well used phrase. For as much as Ray loved his cars, family, dancing and hats he also loved his many dogs over the years – “Timmy,” “Peppy,” “Missy,” and “Benji” to name just a few.

Ray was the loving husband of Ruby. Beloved father of Chris (Amy) Stephen of Elmwood and Grandpa to John. Ray is fondly remembered by Ruby’s daughters, Jackie MacDonald of Port Elgin and Yvonne (John) Campbell of Paisley and their families. Dear brother of Larry (Audrey) Bluhm of Fergus, Leslie Bluhm of Chesley, Allan (Linda) Bluhm of Kitchener, Nancy (Wayne) Wilken of Elmwood and Murray (Theresa) Bluhm of Gooderham. Ray was predeceased by his parents, Wilbert and Viola (Prues) Bluhm and sister-in-law Nadine Bluhm.

A Celebration of Ray’s Life will be held at St. John’s United Church, Chesley, on Friday, December 11, 2015 at 2 p.m. Inurnment to follow in Chesley Cemetery, a place that Ray loved and nurtured.

Memorial donations to St. John’s United Church or Shriners Hospital For Children – Canada would be appreciated.

 

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Michael Ahrens
December 11, 2015

Chris, I’m thinking of you and your family. I remember Ray from Minor Hockey. He was a strong supporter who hardly missed a game. You have my deepest sympathy.

Mike Ahrens (Waterloo)

Janet Rob and Nataley Stephen
December 10, 2015

Thinking of u guys and sending hugs..may u always treasure the wonderful memories

Ruth Hines Mckay
December 10, 2015

Sorry for your loss Ruby and family Have many fond memories when we were neighbours.

Dave, Cathy, Kaitly & Isaac McMillan
December 10, 2015

Chris, Amy & John, our heartfelt sympathies to all. We know all to well how deep that void is. May your memories of a loving Dad & Grandpa help to ease that pain. Prayers and thoughts are with all.

Theressa Stade
December 10, 2015

Chris,Amy and John as well as the rest of your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Ron and Marlene Calhoun
December 10, 2015

Thinking of you Chris, Amy, and
John. May you find comfort in
the many wonderful memories.
Deepest Sympathy,
Ron and Marlene Calhoun.

Brenda & Dave Hamel
December 10, 2015

To Ray’s family, you are in our prayers
and may your memories give you strength.

Linda and Jim Wilkinson
December 9, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to your family.

Paul & Joanne McLaren
December 9, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family

Ellen Lang, Keegan & Adam Farmer
December 9, 2015

Chris, Amy & John,
Our sincerest condolences to you and your family at this time.
To live in the hearts of those we love is not
To die. Peace & Blessings to you.

Dave & Barb Cormack
December 9, 2015

our thoughts n prayers are with you Ruby, Chris Amy and family at tis difficult time! Ray was a great guy , gonna miss him!

Gerald and Mary Golem
December 9, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Chris, Amy, John and the rest of the family. Ray was such a nice, quiet, gentle man … and always had something nice to say! May he rest in peace in his beloved (adn well cared for) Chesley Cemetery. Blessings to you all.


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