There are three important words in life. Love, honesty, and trust.
Tom’s everyday actions revolved around these three keywords. It didn’t matter if you were one of his daughters, a friend or a complete stranger, he treated everyone with the same respect. Honesty, however, was the quality Tom admired most. He led by example and never had a bad thing to say about anyone. Tom was a humble, patient man who will be dearly missed. Thankfully, he will live on in all those he touched through the memories and stories he left us.
Teunis “Tom” was born on Friday, April 24, 1953 to Gijsbert and Jacoba (Groeneveld) Janssen in Ede, Netherlands. He was the youngest of eight boys; Jan, Mies, Gijs, Jaap, Rein, Aart, Joop and Teus (Tom). The Janssen family resided on a farm on the outskirts of the town where he attended public school in Lunteren. Tom then attended trade school in Ede for three years, becoming a licensed carpenter at the young age of 15.
In 1973, while on holidays in Mallorca, Spain Tom met a young woman by the name of Nanny “Nancy” Schuur who was also there vacationing with a friend. This was the first time they met, even though they had been dancing at the same venue back in the Netherlands, Frans Van Tellingen, every Saturday night. The young couple married on Thursday, July 10, 1980 and just a month later, immigrated together to Canada on August 8, 1980. Canada presented more opportunities and a brighter future for the newlyweds. Initially, they settled with Tom’s brother Jan for a short period of time, before purchasing their first home on the 14th of Bentinck. The Janssen family soon began to grow, with the arrival of their four daughters; Joyce (1982), Amy (1984), Angela (1988) and Nicole (1994).
Upon arrival in Canada, Tom began working for John Kuiper Construction and remained with them for the next ten years. In May of 1989, the Janssens moved into a spec home on Sideroad 5, before building a new home on the 12th of Bentinck. It was at this time that Tom started his own business, TJ Construction. The year was 1990. After many years of doing home renovations and agricultural construction, he later concentrated more on building new homes.
Tom had always been interested in real estate and development and enjoyed this opportunity more in recent years. In March of 2018, Jako Developments Inc. was formed with Harry and Leony Koelen and their vision of Forest Creek Estates became a reality. In August of 2020, Tom and Nancy sold their family home and moved to Forest Creek.
Life wasn’t all work and no play for Tom. He loved anything that was fast and had a motor. Tom was a big fan of Formula 1 and any form of motorcycle racing. He enjoyed his fair share of time on motorcycles and snowmobiles. As most of you know, Tom was a Ford guy and wasn’t afraid to let his preference be known.
Many Friday nights were spent out in the shop, having a few drinks – most likely a rye and Coke, hanging with the guys. These evenings often involved a poker game which Tom always looked forward to. Tom was also a bird enthusiast. He even tried his hand at breeding Kakariki’s, a small parrot, and found great pleasure in just watching the birds gather at his feeders. He would entertain himself by reading or watching the news on CNN or Fox, sports, or a good Western movie. When it came to reading, he enjoyed documentaries, true stories and war novels.
Tom loved the heat and could be found sunbathing even if there was still snow on the ground. He particularly enjoyed the beach and hot summer days. Tom enjoyed kayaking with Nancy and Sunday drives together for ice cream. Tom also enjoyed travelling. For many years, he returned annually to the Netherlands to celebrate special occasions with family. Tom enjoyed travelling South with Nancy, his favourite destinations being Costa Rica and Florida. He and Nancy also explored Northern Ontario and recently took a road trip through Western Canada and the United States. He had a soft spot for impoverished countries. He tried to help wherever he could and spent time in the Dominican Republic building a church and over the years provided support to a variety of other missionary ventures.
It should be no surprise, but Tom’s top priority was always Nancy and the girls. As the girls grew up, Tom eagerly welcomed his sons-in-law as his own and enjoyed the guy time. During their childhood, Tom loved taking the girls for snowmobile rides. He never hesitated to take a day off work to join the girls on school ski trips, skipping the bus home to extend the day on the slopes. The girls also recall the days where dad came home at lunch to take them swimming in Scone, before returning to work. He taught all the girls a variety of life skills and lessons, always remaining patient with them and never getting upset. He handed down his passion for hobby farming, supporting the girls in raising various animals.
As a carpenter, many other lessons took place in the shop and involved building a variety of things. Some of Tom’s best words of wisdom included, “measure twice, cut once” and “don’t hit the wrong nail!” He always encouraged the girls to work hard and do the job right the first time. They always knew that they could count on dad no matter the time or situation. As they got older, he was their chauffeur on more than one occasion, but also enjoyed being part of the fun when the girls had friends over to the house.
The introduction of grandchildren meant another chapter in Tom’s life, one that he truly treasured. Opa always had a treat on hand for his grandkids. He could often be found playing soccer, or a board game such as chess or Cat & Mouse with Logan and Cason. He also enjoyed watching them participate in their sports and building with them in the shop. He often took Claire and Kaylie, who he lovingly referred to as Double Trouble, for rides on his side-by-side.
Tom made connections everywhere he went. He was easy going and easy to get along with. Through his work, travels, and day to day life, he impacted the lives of many and made lots of close friends. Whether it was a funny joke or his whistling tune, his presence was always appreciated.
Sadly, Tom and his family’s world was turned upside down in November 2019 when he was diagnosed with Mesothelioma. This news was devastating for everyone, however Tom’s strong faith in God allowed him to accept his fate, never complaining once. In true Tom fashion, he made the best of each day and appreciated all the support of his family and friends. Tom passed away surrounded by his loving family and closest friend Harry, at Chapman House, Owen Sound on Thursday, April 8, 2021 in his 68th year.
Beloved husband of Wijnanda “Nancy” (Schuur). Loving father of Joyce (Brent) Nicoll of Chesley, Amy (Pat) Madill, Angela (Chris) Hopkins, all of Durham and Nicole (Andy) Peterson of Walkerton. Cherished Opa of Claire, Kaylie, Logan and Cason. Tom will be dearly missed by brothers Gilbert (Elizabeth) of Hanover, Marinus, Rein (Jennie), Aart (Dina), Joop (Marie-Jose), sisters-in-law Jans, Willie, and brother-in-law Ruud Schuur, all of Holland. He was predeceased by his brothers Jan, Jaap and his parents Gijsbert and Jacoba (Groeneveld) Janssen.
A public visitation will be held at Rhody Family Funeral Home, Chesley on Tuesday, April 13, 2021 from 3 – 8 p.m. In order to attend, all guests must call the funeral home and register – please call (519 363-2525) anytime daily from 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. to register. All visitors will be required to wear face masks and socially distance. A private funeral service celebrating Tom’s life will be held on Wednesday, April 14, 2021. A recording of the service will be available on the funeral home website Thursday. Interment in Chesley Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Chapman House or Chesley Hospital Foundation would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.
Tom was a top notch individual. We were saddened to learn of his passing. Deepest condolences to you, Nancy, and family.
We were so sorry to hear about Tom. Our hearts were saddened . Tom was always kind and friendly and a hard worker. He will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
We are so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss Nancy & family. A beautiful tribute to Tom and his impactful life. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
So sorry to hear about your loss, Joyce. My deepest sympathy to you and all your family.
Lieve Nancy en familie,
Gecondoleerd met het overlijden van Teus.
Wij wensen jullie heel veel sterkte toe voor de komende tijd.
Lieve groet
Nancy and family. We are so sorry to hear Tom’s passing. We are thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Cherish the memories.
Nancy, Angela, Amy and your families. Hearing of the loss of Tom weighs heavy on me. It was always a pleasure to work with him and all of you. His good nature combined with his diligence has left a tangible product of many beautiful homes of his making. He will be remembered well and all or you are in my thoughts.
Kind regards, Pam Farrow
We are sad to hear of Tom’s passing Nancy and Family.
We will not forget Toms attention to quality and detail as him and his crew built our house. It was a great way to develop a relationship.
Our thoughts support your family Nancy.
We were so saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He was always a friendly face in a crowd and a pleasure to talk with. He will be greatly missed.
Very sorry for your loss.
Nancy and family our deepest condolences in the loss of Tom. He will be missed. Was always a pleasure to see him. From all our Rona families
We were saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. Our thoughts are with your family and pray for comfort at the this time of deep sorrow.
Lieve Nanny en familie,
Gecondoleerd met dit grote verlies van Teus.
Nancy and Family
We are so saddened to hear about Tom. He was a great man and so kind and caring to everyone . We feel Blessed to have known him for quite a lot of years! His family was such an important part of his life! He will be missed by everyone whose life he touched . Please accept our most heartfelt condolences! May you find comfort in your precious memories and in Gods Love . Hugs!
Nancy and Family, please accept our deepest sympathies at this very difficult time. You have a wonderful family and the love you have for one another will hold you all together. May all your memories bring you solace when you think of Tom. A great man who will be dearly missed but his legacy will live on through all of you. 🙏
Dearest beautiful Nancy and stunning family – Ted and I were devastated to learn of the loss of Tom. He was an amazing man, whose incredible building skills are a legacy to his professionalism. However, and more importantly so, the family, Nancy, that you and he built, will forever be regarded as the strongest of units, and I’m sure, envied by many. We wish we could be with you to mourn his loss, but also to celebrate the life of a man whose fierce love for his family, passion for his trade, and selfless kindness, was second to none. Please know we’re thinking of each of you, and we’ll look forward to when we can gather together, and raise a glass to Tom. Until then…
Nancy & family, please accept our condolences on your loss. We are very grateful to have been able to work with Tom for almost 30 years. His kindness and great attitude will be missed. Our thoughts are with you.
Nancy and family, it was with great sadness that we learned of Tom’s passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and we hope that in a small way they help through these trying times.
What a lovely tribute and such a handsome picture of your Husband and Father. Please know I am thinking of your family at this difficult time and wish you peace and healing through the memories you will share together and with family and friends.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. You and your family are in our thoughts as you grieve this loss.